Do you want a relationship that will last a lifetime?
At "This Relationship Thing" we'll help you save, build or deepen your connection. Each option has a free Webinar just for you!
Three Options: 1. Build 2. Save or 3. 15 Week Intensive
Option 1
Marriage Maker
You already have a good thing going. Let's make sure you guys stand the test of time.
Option 2
Relationship Rescue
You've built something worth saving, why not spend the time to turn struggle into wisdom and hardship into connection?
Option 3
15 Week Intensive
Master the art of communication in this 15-week intensive. Includes Marriage Prep and Relationship Rescue Course Material.
Unlock the Insights and Skills to a Lifelong, Thriving Relationship
Join us and Transform Your Love Life Today!
Do you feel stuck in your relationship? Struggling with constant conflicts? Or simply want to take your relationship from good to great? Start by watching our free webinars where Andrew and Melissa, clinical psychologists with years of experience, share practical tips and insights to help you communicate better, resolve conflicts, and build a fulfilling partnership TODAY.
Hours of Therapy into One Course!
Embark on a journey to forever deepen
your connection & enrich your life beyond measure.
Here's your roadmap to a fulfilling relationship
Improve Communication
Break down barriers and open up new pathways to understanding each other.
Resolve Conflicts Efficiently
Learn constructive conflict resolution to strengthen your bond.
Deep Emotional Connection
Navigate complex emotions together, enhancing intimacy and trust.
Self-Awareness & Growth
Understand your triggers and grow both individually and as a couple.
Why choose
"This Relationship Thing"
No More Guesswork in Love
Only Proven Methods
From conflict resolution to deepening your emotional connection, get tools that address your unique challenges.
Our strategies are universally applicable, whether you’re looking to prevent future issues or navigate current ones.
Work through the program at your pace, adjusting focus areas as your relationship evolves.
Frequently Asked Questions
Absolutely. Our program is designed to address the root causes of relationship dissatisfaction, whether you’re facing communication breakdowns, emotional disconnect, or other challenges. By applying our strategies focused on empathy, conflict resolution, and deepening connections, many couples have found a new path forward together, even when separation seemed imminent.
Yes, “This Relationship Thing” is highly effective for couples in long-distance relationships. The program’s tools and techniques are designed to enhance communication, foster emotional intimacy, and navigate the unique challenges of being apart, making it an ideal resource for couples regardless of distance.
The program is designed to fit into your lifestyle. Many couples begin to notice positive changes within the first few weeks by dedicating just a few hours a week to the exercises and strategies. Consistency and a genuine commitment to applying the principles are key to experiencing transformative results.
Yes, every aspect of our program is grounded in clinical psychology and evidence-based practices. Our founders, both registered clinical psychologists, have incorporated the latest research in relationship dynamics, communication theory, and emotional intelligence to create a program that’s both effective and scientifically sound.
It’s common for one partner to be more hesitant about trying new approaches. We recommend starting with our free webinar as a low-pressure way to introduce the concepts. The program is designed to be engaging and insightful for both partners, providing immediate value that can motivate continued participation.
“This Relationship Thing” covers a wide range of topics and challenges, offering versatile tools that can be applied to various situations. However, we also offer support and guidance through our community and additional resources for more specific or complex issues. We’re committed to helping every couple find solutions that work for them.
While our program can significantly enhance your relationship and may serve as a valuable resource on its own, it’s designed to complement, not replace, traditional therapy. For couples facing severe issues or needing personalized, one-on-one support, we recommend consulting a licensed therapist in addition to using our program.
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If you have any additional questions or need further assistance, please feel free to reach out to us. We’re here to help and would love
to connect with you. You can contact us via any of our social media platforms or send us an email directly at info@andrewonlife.com
Transform Your Relationships with our Expert Course
Learn from renowned Clinical Psychologists
Are you ready to your relationship to the next level? Our comprehensive online course is designed to help you and your partner communicate better, resolve conflicts, and build a lasting, fulfilling relationship. Based on over 20 years of combined experience, our course provides practical tools and insights that you can apply immediately.
Comprehensive Modules
Covering empathy, communication, and conflict resolution.
Real-Life Applications
Techniques you can use in your daily life.
Expert
Guidance
Learn from experienced clinical psychologists.
Flexible
Learning
Access the course, anytime, anywhere.
What Clients Say About US
Johan van der Merwe
Cape Town
South Africa
Andrew didn’t just tell me what I wanted to hear; he challenged me to see how my actions were impacting our connections. It wasn’t always easy, but I felt a significant shift with every session. He has taught me not only to see things from another perspective but also to genuinely feel empathy in every relationship.
In my relationship with my wife and son, Andrew has guided me to truly come up to the surface and take a deep breath – literally, with the Wim Hof breathing technique to manage my stress and approach situations with a calmer perspective. This simple practice has made a world of difference in ho I communicate with my wife and connect with my son. His invaluable insights have been transformative.
Samuel Garcia
Johannesburg
South Africa
If there is one thing that changed in my life, and that I try to implement everyday in my relationship and in life, it is EMPATHY.
To see my partner, not as the enemy, but as a teammate. And to approach the problem as a challenge, together, as a team.
It is not me against her but rather US against the problem.
And when I get triggered, take a step back, ask WHY and WHERE does it come from, communicate it to her so she knows my past better and then face the problem.
Sometimes the problem isn’t a problem anymore when I just communicate that I triggerd.
Emily Thompson
Pretoria
South Africa
Kintsugi: the ancient Japanese art of repairing cherished vessels with silver or gold-coated lacquer, beautifully encapsulates the essence of SHIP and TRT with Andrew Visagie. This approach is dedicated to equipping you with the resources and skills necessary to transform your jagged edges into shimmering highlights of silver and gold. Andrew Visagie provides and empathetic and supportive space, fostering growth and healing.
Through this transformative journey, I gained a new perspective, finding peace and a renewed sense of self. Just as Kintsugi turns broken pottery into works of art, SHIP and TRT helped me embrace my imperfections and rebuild my relationship into something stronger and more beautiful that before.
About Your Hosts
Andrew & Melissa Visagie
Andrew and Melissa are a husband and wife, parents, and team of experienced registered clinical psychologists who have dedicated themselves to helping couples navigate relationship challenges. Their unique approach was born from their relationship and combines scientific knowledge with practical application, offering couples the tools and insights they need to transform their relationships.
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